Wednesday, 12 September 2012

The rollercoaster we call friendship

Its officially my first blog weheyyy!

I figured im going to write all my blogs about relevant events in my life wether its relationships, family frienship or just the ups and downs of life itself.
Today at School i realized something about the all important, Friendship. The way in which it works and how it changes, but most importantly how those who was your cloest friends can slowly, well... move apart? Its this last month ive realized ive started to lose one of my closest ever friends that i have ever had in my life. Aimee. Theres something that ive noticed that can effect frienship and thats called a realtionship. Boy+Girl= love= possessive. My bestfriend recently got a boyfriend, dont get me wrong im happy for her, she deserves to be treated right.
However... i define "being treated right" and "being clingy" too different things. Dont you?? 
As the months have passed by i have started to see that the more time goes on the more i move from friendship and the more she becomes in 'love'. What do i do, i didnt know? 

But now i do. To anyone that was going through the same thing ive realised the bigger person will sit back and watch. Shes still your bestfriend whether you see her as much or not! Shes happy! let her be, if you really are the best friend if anything happens to her, you will always be there to catch her if she falls, because thats what freinds are for i guess, its just the experince of a rollercoaster friendship. 

With Love, Mason x